The video that killed Angel

The video that killed Angel

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Its been on my mind to share my current story with the world in hopes to encourage others who may be going thru the same things that I am going thru. I have spent years sharing the story of my past with anyone willing to listen, but its time for me to talk about the now. I am positively changing my life. I sometimes fear that the changes I am making are not the best. They say honesty is the best policy but how honest should one be? Prior to my 27th b-day the majority of the people I considered to be my friends didn’t even know my real name. I painted a perfect mask and I wore it every day. I didn’t keep my medical appointments. I didn’t accept any public speaking requests, and I was only minimally involved in anything that had to do with HIV. I was hiding because I read a few negative responses posted on a youtube video about me. I let the words of the ignorant force me into a closet. That same video was found by someone who was “friends” with “Angel” and just as soon as it was viewed by that one person, it was posted on “Angels” facebook wall and from there it was inboxed to several people. “Angels” phone started to ring off the hook. Friends became enemies and it t was that moment Angel died and Lynnea was pushed out of her closet.

I was reminded of just how uneducated people are about HIV. I was surprised by how many people ran from me, threatened me, hated me, all because of a microscopic part of my blood. I felt like my secret was going to get me hurt. I left LA paranoid and afraid of the fact that I had hurt so many people. During the time I wore my mask I lived life based on what felt right at the moment. HIV was always in the back of my mind so I was sure to insist and encourage the use of protection with my sex partner but not many people trust a condom when they know the person they are with has an infection that is incurable.

my secret coming out started a testing frenzy amongst the 300+ people who were on my facebook page. I responded to all the negative calls, text messages, and e-mails with the phone numbers and addresses to local free testing centers. I was told that the next day several people showed up at the locations that I suggested.  I deactivated my facebook page and ignored my cellphone for the next few weeks. Angel had a very fun and exciting life. She went out almost every night. Karaoke on Mondays Wednesdays and Fridays, Taco Tuesdays, club hopping on Saturdays and Beach bonfires at any time on any day that she felt bored. Angel is gone and so is that life. I’m not sure what to expect from this new life but I’m sure it will be Positively Beautiful!

 

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One thought on “The video that killed Angel

  1. Your story sounds difficult but I am so very happy you’ve carried on going and come out of it stronger! You may have lost a few friends on the way but at least you now know the people who really do love you, as they are the people who will be there to support you no matter what. I hope all goes well and you have every success that you dream of 🙂

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